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נושא: Sotah

BET MIDRASH VIRTUALI

of the Rabbinical Assembly in Israel



RABIN MISHNAH STUDY GROUP




Bet Midrash Virtuali

TRACTATE SOTAH, CHAPTER ONE, MISHNAH EIGHT (recap):

Samson followed his eyes: therefore the Philistines put out his eyes (as it is said: 'And the Philistines took him and put out his eyes'). Absalom beautified his hair: therefore he was hanged by his hair. And because he had conjugal relations with ten of his fathers mistresses he had ten spears thrust into him (as it is said: 'And then of Joab's armed force surrounded him'). And he stole the hearts of three: his father, the Bet Din and the men of Israel (as it is said: 'And Absalom stole the heart of the men of Israel'); this is why he was struck by three darts (as it is said: 'And he took in his hand three darts and thrust them into Absalom's heart').

DISCUSSION (continued):

Jim Feldman has presented a reading of Absalom's behaviour together with a critique of David (and Solomon). As promised, here is my own reading of these characters and their behaviour.

It all began when David ruined the life of a family because of his lust for a woman he had only see from afar. Batsheva was a married woman and she consented to an adulterous union with King David, by whom she became pregnant. Having failed in an attempt to create a situation in which the child might be presumed to be that of the woman's husband David now set about adding sin to sin and, by abusing his role as commander-in-chief of the armed forces, encompasses the death of Uriah, Batsheva's husband.

When the prophet Natan confronts David with the enormity of these sins he is contrite, and realises that he must be punished. His punishment is 'measure for measure': just as he, because of his uncontrolled lust, ruined a happy family, so from henceforward will his family happiness be ruined. He is told by Natan [2Samuel 12:7-12]:

Thus says the God of Israel: I anointed you king over Israel … I gave you your master's house and your master's women and the house of Israel and Judah. And I would have given you more [had you but asked]. So why did you bring God's word into contempt by doing that which is wrong in His sight? You smote Uriah the Hittite with the sword and you took his woman to be your woman, using the sword of the Ammonites. Now, therefore, the sword shall never depart from your household… I hereby create trouble for you from within your own house…

It is against this background that we must understand David's reaction to the events within his own family. Amnon is his eldest son and his presumed heir. Amnon, a chip off the old block, an apple that did not fall far from its tree, lusts uncontrollably for his half-sister, Tamar, and rapes her. Jim presents Absalom's murder of Amnon as 'necessary vengeance' on behalf of his full sister, since David does nothing apart from wagging his finger at Amnon. I think that there are certain indications in the story that Absalom is not free from other, much more selfish motives. His reaction to his sister's rape is incredible. It is obvious he has known all along that Amnon was a 'ticking bomb' and had done nothing to prevent his sister's tragedy. But far worse is his callous reaction to her sobbing distress [2Samuel 13:19-20]:

Tamar put ashes on her head and ripped the long-sleeved robe that she was wearing; and with her hand on her head she went on her way screaming. Absalom her brother said to her, 'Has Amnon your brother been with you? Now, sister, be silent, for he is your brother. Pay no attention to what has happened…'

David feels powerless to act since he knows that this is part of his punishment for his own misdeeds. All he can do is to keep Amnon and Absalom as far apart as possible, since he knows what is in Absalom's mind. Absalom bides his time and two years later creates a situation in which he can murder Amnon far from home. Judging by his callous treatment of Tamar we can assume that revenge was only a cover for his real motive: with the death of Amnon Absalom is now heir apparent.

Absalom goes about reinforcing his position like a true politician. The bible [2Samuel 15:1-6] describes how he would hang around chatting up people waiting for the king's justice, telling each party the same thing: if I were king I would surely find in your favour… When people would bow down to him he would prevent this and instead would kiss their hands… 'And thus Absalom stole the heart of the men of Israel'.

Eventually Absalom breaks out into open rebellion against his father, a rebellion which is for some time successful. David is loathe to act against his son since he sees himself as the ultimate cause of all this situation (apart from a father's natural affection for his son). Joab, David's cousin, does his dirty work for him and, as we have seen, brings about Absalom's downfall and David's restoration to power.

It is against this background, I believe, that we must judge the charges that Jim levelled against David and his exculpation of Absalom. That I shall attempt to do in our next shiur.



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