דף הביתשיעוריםGiyyur

Giyyur 025

נושא: Giyyur

Bet Midrash Virtuali

BET MIDRASH VIRTUALI

of the Rabbinical Assembly in Israel
and the Masorti Movement

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HALAKHAH STUDY GROUP

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THE HALAKHAH OF GIYYUR (Conversion to Judaism)

Wherever you go I will go; wherever you lodge I will lodge; your people shall be my people, and your God my God. Where you die I will die and there I will be buried. Thus and more may God do to me if anything but death parts me from you. [Ruth 1:16-17].

(For the Hebrew text of this passage please click here.)

Part Five (concluded).

35:
Recently one of the members of a Bet Din in Jerusalem stunned the non-Ĥaredi (ultra-orthodox) Jewish world by a scathing attack on the conversion process in Israel which included the deposition of the rabbinic head of that process and the declaration that all the conversions that the official conversion process had performed were null and void! We have already seen that such a stance is in direct opposition to the spirit and word of the Talmudic sages and also to the spirit and word of a large number of medieval and more modern rabbinic authorities. We have already quoted many of them. In an carefully detailed responsum on the subject my colleague, Rabbi David Golinkin, has enlarged the list of more modern authorities whose halakhic stance is against that of the present ultra-orthodox intransigence. Rabbi Golinkin mentions:

  • Rabbi Me'ir Posner (died 1807)
  • Rabbi Shlomo Kluger (died 1829)
  • Chief Rabbi of Cairo, Rabbi Raphael ben-Shimon (died 1929)
  • Chief Rabbi of Eretz-Israel, Rav Avraham Yitzĥak ha-Cohen Kuk (died 1935)
  • Rabbi Yosef Mashash (died 1974)
  • Chief Rabbi of the State of Israel, Rabbi Isser Yehudah Unterman (died 1976)
  • Rabbi Eliezer Berkowitz (died 1992)

Even more impressive, perhaps, is a statement of Rabbi Marc Angel, Rabbi of the Spanish-Portuguese synagogue in New York City, who wrote in 1983:

In fact, there is no Talmudic legal source that would indicate unequivocally that acceptance of all commandments is a prerequisite for conversion… Where it can be determined that the non-Jew is seriously dedicated to sharing our destiny, carrying our burdens, participating in our communal life, there is good basis for conversion.

36:
Art Evans has sent me the following message:

Recently news from Israel was that some thousands of conversions had been retroactively declared invalid. I look forward to reading your discussion of this matter.

This is my response. If a conversion has been performed according to all halakhic requirements (excluding the spurious stringencies of the modern ultra-orthodox) it is in no way conditional. One is either a Jew or one is not a Jew; there is no status such as this person is a Jew on condition that… – whatever the condition may be. Furthermore, once a person is a Jew – be it by birth or conversion – there is no way that their Jewish status can be abrogated. "Once a Jew always a Jew." Imagine a Jew-by-birth who decides to adopt Buddhism as his way of life. According to halakhah such a person is Yehudi mumar, a Jew who converted out. From the Jewish point of view such a person is still a Jew – and will remain so until the day he dies. The same applies to a Jew-by-choice: even if such a convert were to revert to their former religion they would still be considered Jewish according to halakhah. If any given halakhic authority (such as that Bet Din in Jerusalem) refuses to recognise the conversion performed by another authority that is their prerogative, but it in no way affects the recognition that other authorities still accord those conversions. The Masorti Movement in Israel, for example, recognises conversions performed under Reform auspices if the conversion was performed according to halakhah, and does not recognise a Reform conversion that was not performed according to halakhah.

37:
I would like to end this series of shiurim on conversion with a message that I received almost six moths ago. I think that it contains a message for all of us: that the success of a conversion depends more than anything else on the extent to which the community shows love and gives a warm welcome to the new Jew.

First, allow me to introduce myself. I am 57 years old, a convert to Judaism at age 53. Prior to that, I lived most of my life as an agnostic because I could not accept the religion of my parents (Christian) and no other religion/philosophy resonated for me, until I studied Judaism. After a year of self-study, I took an Intro to Judaism class. I was not thinking of converting, simply wanting to learn more. To make a long story short, I fell in love with Judaism and after the class was finished, I spoke with a Rabbi who helped me complete the conversion process. I spent 3 years studying in classes and reading any book about Judaism that I could get my hands on. I joined a Temple and went to services every Shabbat, joined the Sisterhood and tried to be as involved as much as a single convert would be allowed to be involved.

At the beginning of my fourth year as a Jew, I left Temple and have been a "stay at home" Jew, studying on my own. I love Judaism more now than I did prior to conversion, but there is a reality that we are not told and I think it is because of the theory that is taught….

The theory is beautiful and sounds so welcoming. The reality is… Converts are rarely accepted. A small minority of Jews do accept us, but the majority do not. Converts are often interrogated as to why they converted. Converts are never completely trusted. I speak not only for myself, but for many others who have been thru the same experience.

Why are we not told this? Why are we told theory but not reality? It is very painful to find this out on our own. We spend years trying to identify and wonder what it is we are doing wrong. We never "feel" Jewish and keep looking, trying to do more and more until we finally give up. If we were told upfront that we will not be accepted, we would know what to expect and not build our hopes up and eventually feel as though we have gone thru a "divorce" without ever being "married".

Please do not judge me as bitter, because I am no longer bitter. I have worked thru my issues and have learned to accept things as they are. This is the way it is, people are fearful and with good reason… given the history, I do not judge any Jew for being fearful… I would be too, and I suppose if I had good sense, I would feel fearful too because my lot is cast with them. For me, being a Jew is being true to my soul. I would rather live 5 minutes and be true to myself, rather than a lifetime trying to fit in where I don't belong. I am a Jew, I will die as a Jew… but most of all, I will live as a Jew… even if it means remaining alone. We are not insincere when we cease being a part of community, we just don't feel comfortable where we are not welcomed. I just think being open and honest with a person makes it much easier for all involved.

Let me remind us all of something that we learned at the very beginning of our study of this topic (Giyyur 002).

There is a convert who is non-Jewish in every way: how [can this be]? – He has non-kosher food in his home [for example], but he says [to himself] "I will go and convert and live among those [Jews] who have lovely food, who have [delightful] sabbaths and festivals, and they will come and eat in my house." So he forces himself to convert but ultimately reverts to his old ways until suffering comes along to restore him to the good thing that he did. God says to Israel: "My children, just as this person loves you so must you love him" – as it is said [Deuteronomy 10:19]: "You must love the convert."

DISCUSSION:

Derek Fields has sent me the following insight which I pass on to everyone.

It occurs to me, as I am learning the first aliyah of Vayechi, that the example that Jacob sets in adopting Manasseh and Ephraim can relate to the question of conversion. What struck me are the p'sukim (47:5-6) that read: "And now, your two sons who were born to you in the land of Egypt shall be mine; Ephraim and Manasseh shall be mine like Reuven and Shimon. But progeny born to you after them shall be yours; they will be included under the name of their brothers with regard to their inheritance." Why does Jacob make this distinction between Manesseh and Ephraim and any future siblings that they may have? Possibly, it is a statement that even though they were born outside of the Jewish people to a non-Jewish mother while their father was disconnected from his people, that they, Manasseh and Ephraim, are not only to be included amongst the Jewish people, but to be given a position of honor. I am not suggesting this as Aggadah Halachah, but simply another homiletic statement that may bear on the issue of the place and value of the convert amongst us.

NOTICE:

Our series of shiurim on conversion has now reached its conclusion. Last week I asked people to send me suggestions and requests concerning the next topic to be studied in the Halakhah Study Group. So far I have not received any suggestions. So please do write to me by clicking here and offer a suggestion or request for our next topic. Assuming that I do get requests I shall set them before you in a couple of weeks so that all participants can choose the next topic to be studied. The deadline for sending your requests and suggestions is Monday 12th January.

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